This morning I jumped out of bed at 5:00 am, made the husband and kids breakfast to have waiting for them when they woke up, got my sneakers on, and headed out the door. While I was cranking out my 3 miles, I had a head full of ideas and plans for today. This is how it was supposed to go down:
After my 9:30 conference with my daughter's teacher, I'll head straight to the grocery store and get the stuff I need EARLY. Come back, put the baby down for a nap, put away the groceries, clean up, pick up the girls, do homework time, cook dinner early and possibly (please please please) have some down time. I even had ideas for this blog! I was going to write all kinds of helpful and money saving things that I've been testing out!.... Anybody feeling the impending doom? I didn't. I should have, but I didn't.
I came back from my workout, got the girls ready, fed the baby breakfast, walked them to school and rushed home to get ready for the conference. The minute I walked into the school, my son starts throwing a fit. I've not even gotten into the room and he's kicking and screaming. I drive him around in the stroller while singing twinkle twinkle little star over and over like a moron. We get into the room and I try to give him a pacifier. He throws it. I try to give it back to him, he screams and throws it. I give him a toy, he screams and throws it ( All of this while listening to the teacher tell me about my daughter being distracted at school) I give him his sippy cup, he screams and throws it. And then it happens.... My brilliant idea of the day. In my desperation, I quickly google the wiggles version of twinkle twinkle little star that he loves so much, and I HAND HIM THE PHONE!!! What does he do? He screams and THROWS MY F%^$#%
64G iPHONE 4S ACROSS THE ROOM!!!! I see it happening in slow motion and brace myself for the inevitable. I hear the sickening sound of my beloved screen shattering as it hit the floor. This is not happening. I'm such an IDIOT!! What did I think he was going to do with it? While I stare at the phone in horror, unable to form a thought, he is now at a full blown tantrum, beet red with boogers mixing with tears streaming down his face. My daughter's teacher is looking at me like you would look at a three-legged mangy dog; with distanced pity.
I could tell she wanted me and my demon child out of there. Who could blame her? She makes a quiet comment about "now understanding" my daughters distractions and need for attention, and starts gathering her papers. Now, I am beyond embarrassed and upset. I smiled politely, thanked her, apologized for my son, and exited the school as quickly as I could. I could feel the heat coming up behind my eyes and my brain shutting down on me as I rushed to the car. It was 10:15 and I was already losing it. What happened?
I get in the car and sit down, only to realize that in my rush to leave and get the baby in the car, I wasn't paying attention that I had the broken phone in my hand. My hand was now full of tiny pieces of broken glass shards imbedded into my skin. I turn on the DVD player for the baby and sit in the parking lot of East Lake Elementary School and had me a good cry. I guess today was the day for temper tantrums.. for both of us.
I know this may sound silly to some people. It
IS silly as a matter of fact. This incident shouldn't have upset me the way it did, but it was the metaphoric straw that broke the camel's back.
I really can't afford to fix the phone right now, I really am struggling with my son's temper and the restrictions it puts on me because I can't take the little sucker anywhere without some kind of drama, and
I, of course, put pressure on myself to meet my deadlines and timeframes. (I'm working on that part)
So now I'm home, the baby is taking a forced nap, and I'm quickly coming to the realization that I handled that pretty badly. Damned blog. I was perfectly fine thinking I did ok. Like I've stated before, writing this damn thing is therapeutic.
I swear, I will be back tomorrow with something less pathetic. LOL.... I hope.
Sonya